Sometimes it feels like you ended up exactly where you started. And you ask, all this hullabaloo for nothing?

Sometimes you need to digress a little from the path you have been treading, onto another one. The digression is termed a “mistake”. Its sole purpose is to make you feel hopeless and thereby reaffirm you are on the right path.

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